Discovering Your A: Reality check on happiness - are you loving B for the sake of A and forgetting A ?

Hey there, curious minds and seekers of wisdom! Are you ready to embark on a journey that will challenge the way you perceive your choices and priorities? Brace yourselves, because today we're diving headfirst into the intriguing concept of loving B for the sake of A and how it can revolutionize your perspective on life.

Picture this: a mother surrounded by a mountain of colorful toys. You might think, "Ah, she must really love those toys!" But hold on a second. Take a closer look. It's not the toys that she's head over heels for; it's her precious little munchkin who uses those toys to dive into a world of imagination and fun. The toys are just the bridge that connects her love for the playtime joy her child experiences.

Now, let's zoom out from this heartwarming scene and apply the same lens to our own lives. How often do we find ourselves fixating on the "B" - the toys, the distractions, the material possessions - while neglecting the "A" - the true essence, the genuine source of happiness?

You see, it's not about labeling things as 'bad' or 'good'; it's about recognizing what truly matters. It's like savoring a delicious pizza (your B) because you're sharing it with your best friends (your A), who make every moment a memorable slice of life!

The Perils of Loving Just the B

Imagine chasing after money relentlessly. You might believe money is the ultimate source of happiness (B), but in reality, it's the freedom, security, and opportunities (A) that money provides which bring joy. By fixating on the "B" without acknowledging the "A," you might find yourself in a never-ending loop of dissatisfaction and chasing the next big thing.

Similarly, obsessing over a high-paying job (B) might make you overlook the fulfillment, personal growth, and the positive impact (A) your work can have on your life and others. Isn't it time to steer clear of these pitfalls and embrace a more holistic perspective?

Unveiling the Power of Loving A

Now, here's the golden key: by truly understanding your "A" and letting it drive your pursuits, you'll find a renewed sense of purpose and lasting contentment. Imagine waking up each day with a fire in your belly, not because of the mundane tasks at hand, but because you're connected to the deeper reasons (A) that make those tasks meaningful.

Are you ready to embrace this paradigm shift? Here's how:

1. Reflect on Your Passions: Set goals that are aligned with your values. Take a moment to ponder what truly ignites your soul. Is it painting, volunteering, coding, or connecting with people? Identify your "A" and make it the compass guiding your choices.
2. Embrace Mindfulness: Pause and savor the moments where your "A" shines through. When you're relishing a delicious meal, cherish the company you're sharing it with. When you achieve a milestone at work, revel in the journey and growth that got you there.
3. Prioritize Relationships: Just like the mother cherishes her child, focus on nurturing relationships with loved ones. Share experiences, create memories, and let those connections be your "A" in action.
4. Seek Meaningful Goals: Instead of setting goals solely based on external rewards (the "B"), aim for aspirations that align with your core values and passions (the "A"). This way, the journey becomes as fulfilling as the destination.

So, my fellow adventurers on the road of life, let's make a pact. Let's commit to cherishing our "A" and letting it infuse magic into our pursuits. Remember, loving B for the sake of A isn't just a philosophy; it's a way to unlock a life brimming with joy, purpose, and fulfillment.

As you venture forth, keep your eyes on your "A" prize, and let it illuminate every corner of your journey. It's time to rewrite the story of your life, one meaningful chapter at a time. Your "A" is waiting to be discovered—go out there and find it!

Hello Good People,

I hope you enjoyed this blog post and thank you for spending your most valuable resource - 'time'. Rest assured it was worthwhile and you have realised this - just be with it, for a bit! 

The information in this post is inspired by a talk titled - 'The Honey of Non-Duality'  by Swami Sarvapriyananda. It captures only a small part of the talk and that too used there in the broader context of Non-Dualism.

If you are interested in listen to the full talk check out this official YoutTube video from The Vedanta Society of New York: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l7m8vr14tDA&t=2963 

The concepts are explained quite convincingly; with option to refute based on logic😇

More to come. Stay connected. See you soon.